Each day of our life is unique and inimitable. Every day we put a many goals and achieve them. But sometimes not. For example, prepare meal, go to work, read a few pages of interesting books, chat with friends. Simple and humble everyday goals do not cause us any problems and doubts, we just think about what we want and instant do it. But let’s think together. Why there are uncertainty and hesitation, when we set ourselves a more difficult target? For example, buy an apartment or new car, create own business, become successful, happy, establish good relationships in the family. The first thing you need to do is believe in the possibility of realization of this goal and realize that for human is nothing impossible. There were cases when people recovered from cancer and AIDS, homeless become millionaires, and losers became famous and successful personalities, because they had strong confidence in their abilities. This people got in what they believed. And if you do not believe in that we can achieve our dreams, then life response to your thoughts and you will constantly prove that you absolutely are right, and it becomes unreal. Life is always only reflect our opinions and beliefs. If you believe that achieving your goal is unrealistic, you’re absolutely right. But if you think that the realization of your goals is quite possible, even in this case, you’re absolutely right. So our first step to achieve our goal – a realization that this is possible and real. The second step – divide a severe goal into smaller and affordable goals.
For example, the goal “to create their own business” is incomprehensible and very generalized. What does “create a business” mean? Get rich? Open your own restaurant? have a good yield? Or buy precious clothes? Or something alternative. So scatter our great goal on several smaller goals, which performance will be only a matter of time. For example:
- Understand what I like to do, and what I could do better than others.
- Decide how my favorite thing can bring me profit.
- Explore the market and determine demand for your services.
- Talk with businessmen or read the appropriate literature.
- Estimate the amount of money you need to start own business.
- Write a plan for your business and begin to implement it.
It’s just a simple example to understand that more large is our goal, than on more smaller goals it should be divided. Now your goal is not transcendental and unattainable. It becomes real and understandable for implementation. And finally the third, but equally important step: direct your internal energy to achieve own goal. .
So, how to do something? The best answer to this question is somewhat philosophical funny story about an old worker, who all his life beg God for something, that help him win the lottery a lot of money. The whole life worker wait that he will win much money. And this man become old and died. He got to heaven. Of course, in the first place he went to God, to express what he thinks about it: – “Oh! I hate you – he said angrily to God – I believed in you and praying. And you never helped me win a lot of money in the lottery . You have crushed my faith and my life”. And God replied: – “Oh my ungrateful friend, how you dare to speak so? You at least once in your life tried to buy at least one lottery ticket?” And I think that the worker is the mirror image of us when we cease to believe in ourselves. We declare over the world about your desire loudly and confidently , but do not forget that God do not have other hands than our. You must participate in creation own life.